Pregnancy weight gain;

I see everyone stressing hardcore about gaining a few pounds these days... Try 21 pounds.

I feel like at this point in my pregnancy I shouldn't have gained nearly that much. I've held a constant weight for quite sometime now. It's stressful to have zero control over this weight gain and the worst part is not being able to diet or get rid of it.

It's gotten to me a lot lately and I'm really working on coping. If anyone has any advice on how to get over this I would love to hear it.